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After living on my own from 1985 to 2008, I have been back living with my parents since October 2008 and it has been difficult to say the least.And yes, it does grind on my confidence, if for no other reason than you do sometimes look at yourself through society's eyes. One thing I recommend is pre-studying, jumping ahead even if behind and otherwise trying to get ahead of the curve, and then adding a couple of activities such as sports leagues, activism, volunteer work.The only place I could see myself regularly being around women after college is wherever I work and I have a personal policy against dating co-workers.There's only two girls in the computer science class, so it can't get any harder, at least.After High school dating got 100x easier, but I'm not out of college yet so I can't say.I imagine it would be harder since most of the women I meet are somehow related to me going to college.Did anybody else's luck pick up when they finished school?I'm hoping my living situation is to blame and not my personality.
If you're single and looking, then you should try to do so on at least a weekly basis.
I've been doing this for three years with little variation. The guy from BRCC (porn) put on 20 lbs and had to shut down his business for 6 months because his success rate with "potential clients" went from 45% (I know, right) all the way down to 5% because of his weight. being a little overweight costs you a lot of social equity. It only works for around 25% (guess which 25%), is largely unsuccessful for 50% and worthless for the bottom 25%.
You CAN run into awesome people being out and about... The guy I care for bumbled into a cute girl on the train platform, we started talking and she sat next to me on the train.
That is a major problem that I don't know how to fix but maybe someone else will chime in.
My luck changed about 2/3 of the way through doing my Master's degree.
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And then the light touch of course, that you're doing the activity for it's own sake, that if you happen to meet anyone it's a happy bonus.